BLOG #10

So, after thorough discussion in class i made up my mind about love; I came to the conclusion that it does exist. We all came up with similar definitions of what love is to us, which was along the line of an extreme infatuation with someone who you feel romantic towards. I feel as if you can find true love without searching, and that is the beauty of it. When people go out of their way to find "the love of their life" they might be missing what could possibly be right in front of them. Another thing about love that we discussed is the fact that it might fade. I also do believe that love does fade. If something goes wrong in a relationship, sometimes you can't look at the person the same way, and the love beings to fade. For instance if someone cheats in a relationship, how are you supposed to forgive them, let alone promise to love them still? Over time feelings change, they either grow stronger or they fade. I believe if you find "the one" deep down, you will know. If the flame dies down then you know it wasn't meant to be. I am a believer in the flame of love, but i also believe that the flame can die.